Welcome to the craziness that is my life!

This is my story in pieces. The good ones, the bad ones, and everything in between. It is messy and flawed...just like it's author. I am not a selfliss person...I am not an angel...I am a loud, opinionated, most of the time crazy, Mom. I write here the things I cannot discuss in my "day to day life". These views are my own, from my own journey. Adoption has changed my life forever, some for good, some not so good. If you don't agree with me, that's fine. It's not your story...it's mine. Consider it a manual on "How Not To Act/What Not To Do When You Are Pregnant and Considering Adoption". If you learn nothing else, learn to educate yourself to the long term affects on yourself, your family, and the child you chose to place.

Oh...and please, don't call me "bitter". I prefer the term "enlightened".

***DISCLAIMER-I don't speak for anyone but me...in this story or in life. It is here as an educational tool if anyone chooses to learn something. I appreciate comments always.***

P.S. Just because I don't actively blog doesn't mean I still don't LOVE comments. Yes, I still check them. I guess I would just rather hear YOUR thoughts, than share mine.

If you missed the story, start reading the "Posts of Some Significance" located directly underneath and to the right of this. That's the story in a nutshell.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010


If you haven't seen this before, its all the rage in bloggy land right now. It lets readers ask the blog author ANYTHING they want to know. Informative, interactive, and a whole lot of FUN FUN!!! Ask away!

Ask me anything http://formspring.me/mrsperrbear


  1. I always worry about my friends who sign up for this thing. You have to have thick skin to do this. People could possibly ask some hurtful things. I would hate to see someone hurt over something like that :/

  2. Thank you guys for the concern. It means a lot!!!

    I think this concept is amazing, and would love to see some intriguing questions pop up. Nothing can make me hurt more than I already do some days, so it'll be interesting to see what comes up.

    I was sharing a part of my story today, to some VERY raised eyebrows, (I think they thought I was nuts) and think it'll be a learning experience for me.


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